The things you learn abt life...
Whats with old men anyway?? They just don’t know what to do with their lives now do they? So option one harass the young girl. What is option number two? Make sure u give her a lecherous grin. Option three actually get the point across that you don’t give ur undivided attention to any girl (oh bull!!Big favour you are doing me !).
While you are busy telling him something important he is busy telling how beautiful ur eyes are and how dreamy they look. Dreamy? Blink blink!! What crap? Dreamy would not be the right word when u report for work at four in the morning. Hello!!! Then u get back to what u were saying but no he is not going to let it go is he?? Like a dog with a bone he persists on telling you what he thinks ur eyes remind him of…yeah can someone call up and tell his wife please! Cant do that, when you are 39,000ft above ground. Sigh. Then you make him like 13 glasses of tea coz he thinks u make wonderful tea. And you cannot say no coz ur a junior and all u can do is smile; fend of his questions without being rude.
But sometimes it gets worse than this. Sentences pop out with double meanings and you make sure you take the innocent option …act as if u don’t understand because you really don’t want to think abt what he really means and then they laugh…saying she is a smart one she understands but she is not willing to respond. Very diplomatic...but she will learn soon, so they say. How I wish I could push them or see them toppling down the stairs and splat!
Then he thinks he has the bloody right to call u sweetheart! Say what? Old coot! Ignore ignore it’s gonna get over in another hours time…keep chanting this in your head. Paste a polite smile and just walk away; you won’t see him for a long time to come (at least till the next time u have to work with him or them). But the other things make up for this… so you learn to move on and let this go because they are not worth your thoughts.
While you are busy telling him something important he is busy telling how beautiful ur eyes are and how dreamy they look. Dreamy? Blink blink!! What crap? Dreamy would not be the right word when u report for work at four in the morning. Hello!!! Then u get back to what u were saying but no he is not going to let it go is he?? Like a dog with a bone he persists on telling you what he thinks ur eyes remind him of…yeah can someone call up and tell his wife please! Cant do that, when you are 39,000ft above ground. Sigh. Then you make him like 13 glasses of tea coz he thinks u make wonderful tea. And you cannot say no coz ur a junior and all u can do is smile; fend of his questions without being rude.
But sometimes it gets worse than this. Sentences pop out with double meanings and you make sure you take the innocent option …act as if u don’t understand because you really don’t want to think abt what he really means and then they laugh…saying she is a smart one she understands but she is not willing to respond. Very diplomatic...but she will learn soon, so they say. How I wish I could push them or see them toppling down the stairs and splat!
Then he thinks he has the bloody right to call u sweetheart! Say what? Old coot! Ignore ignore it’s gonna get over in another hours time…keep chanting this in your head. Paste a polite smile and just walk away; you won’t see him for a long time to come (at least till the next time u have to work with him or them). But the other things make up for this… so you learn to move on and let this go because they are not worth your thoughts.
7 Comments:
These kind of things really suck..I have seen the same problem with married men having kids too..they use their marriage as a cover..but anyways since you are aware now..you could be more careful..
best is Cold attitude!...Lock it !
Cant believe such men still exists.....they should kill themselves :)
Whoa...thts a rat for a boss! Maybe u shud give him a piece of ur mind sumtime!
Belated wishes for NewYear's though! :)
yes one has to deal with crap like this everywhere. my advice: talk about it. advantages are two fold: brings it out in the open, so no1 can ignore it; also gets it out of your system.
so..keep writing.
Ignoring is the best option...:-)
Teaching such people a lesson would insult them, and hurt their ego! They're old and too bored anyway!
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